The Truth about Breastfeeding

I have two children and I have had completely different breastfeeding experiences, so I wanted to get it out there that there isn’t really a truth’ or a one-size fits all, when it comes to breastfeeding.

With my first child, I had always presumed I’d breastfeed because I just thought that ‘it’s what you do’ and hadn’t put that much thought into it. Older women would tell me how much they missed breastfeeding so I presumed it was such a lovely thing and it would be easy, right? Wrong. I really found it hard with Max, at least to start with. I was so sore it would really hurt so would dread each feeding time and with a newborn, that’s pretty often. This may be TMI, but I would be expressing milk and it would be pink because there was so much blood in it as I was so sore. Things eased and it got better but he would just have the longest feeds, I’d be almost dreading the feed, but in a different way, as it would often take around an hour each time. A lot of not being impressed by breastfeeding to start with was down to not being prepared. No one really showed me properly, or even said ‘it’s going to be awful to start with’ – I just presumed it was this simple and easy thing. I just wasn’t expecting it, like a lot of new mums.

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Once Max was weaning and could have things like baby rice and fruit and veg puree, it really helped as it would fill him up a lot more. After about 6 months I started to give him formula occasionally but still breastfed the majority. I fed him until he was 9 months old and he just wouldn’t focus anymore but I was happy with that.

With Chloe it has been very different. Things have been a lot smoother, a lot less painful and she seems a lot more ‘efficient’ at feeding. Feeds are around 20 minutes which is a lot better for me, especially with her older brother around. Perhaps some of this is down to my being more prepared this time and having a better idea of what I’m doing. I’m a lot more confident with it this time, particularly in public. I’d get so nervous about being out and the thought of having to feed Max in public. I’m really not bothered now (I do use a cover of course, I’m still shy about getting my boob out for the world to see)!

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So ‘the truth’ is, there is no right or wrong. In my experience, it is all down to the baby. Some just really can’t get on board with breastfeeding but others (like my daughter), just won’t take a bottle – she still doesn’t!

So do what is right for you and your baby and be happy with it.

The Multitasking Mummy

Rebecca x

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8 Comments

  1. 16th February 2015 / 1:09 pm

    Sounds like you had 2 really good breastfeeding journeys even if one was more painful than the other.
    It’s lovely to read articles like this as you’re lead to believe that there is a breastfeeding normal but in reality that’s not always true and as you say it’s all down to baby.

  2. 16th February 2015 / 1:56 pm

    Do you think your second experience has been slightly easier because you had breastfed before? I agree its all down to the baby and how they decide to feed or if they want to at all! thanks for linking up #MummyMonday x

  3. 16th February 2015 / 1:56 pm

    Ouch! I remember those first few weeks well and the stress of having no idea if baby was getting enough. Overall I had a really good BF journey though and went to nine months like you. I plan to BF again with baby #2 and hope it will be just as good with a bit of extra confidence because I’ve done it before #MummyMondays

    • 17th February 2015 / 11:17 pm

      I think it does help with your second as you are a bit more aware of what to do. Good luck x

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